Kim doesnt need to be in a man’s body for a day to “hit (herself) from the back” because she most likely already has sex as an externalized observer, alienated from her own body, looking at the sex happen from a vantage point, not actively identifying as “I, me, the subject who is having sex” as much as feeling herself to be “it, her, the object of arousal”, getting off on the idea of herself looking sexy and creating desire in the man, who is the active Subject in the scene, and not actually experiencing the desire herself and expressing what we would call “real” or authentic sexuality………………….
but that’s none of my business *Kermit pic*
"Poop, please exit my body in a polite and swift manner"
I spent a few months working regularly part time for a family out on a farm and was assured that during the summer months I would have full time employment. Summer came and my employer dropped a bomb by saying she couldn't pay me $10/hour anymore and that they found other help (probably younger girls that charge less for childcare). She didn't say this on her own, either, I had to ask her when my full time hours were going to start before she bothered to tell me. The thing is, a couple (1/2)
You're really good at giving advice. How do you get over people telling you that you're not good enough? Teachers and other students have been telling me that I'm not good enough in every way since elementary school(I'm Black and a Woman so you can guess why ). Every time I face a new task I can't help but think about them and proving them wrong, but that stresses me out so much I end up not doing well and thinking that they were right. It's a painful cycle that I don't know how to get out of.
how do i tell my boyfriend i've been faking orgasm for the 6 months we've been having sex? i've never had an orgasm with a partner (i've had two) and faked every time. usually before we have intercourse, i cum by masturbating as he kisses and touches my body. but i can feel during sex i'm about the get so close as them he cums and i fake that i'm cumming with him. i also don't know if im getting the right sensation? like a lot of the time it feels like im gonna pee even though i peed before sex?
Today some of your advice prompted me to shut down a toxic friendship. I do not need this person constantly bringing me down. Thanks for that. I hope you are having a splendid trip!
whatre some of ur favorite songs? that instantly brighten ya mood?
@anon: sometimes for me it has also been helpful to just take a moment to name it, “i am feeling anxious right now,” instead of inwardly yelling at myself STOP BEING ANXIOUS STOP BENG ANXIOUS which is p. anxiety inducing